Your whole life, you have experienced sadness, happiness, and anger (duh). You see everything from your perspective. You see events of joy and sadness. When you meet/get to know someone (like Emily), it seems like a big thing. All of these things, including your ideas, added up are just monumental! Imagine that everything you know is put into a room. The room must have been HUGE!!! Now think of how may people there are in the world. Everyone has the same amount of events in their life. All of the 6 billion people in the world have the same kind of thoughts. So before you think why someone says or thinks something, think about it for a minute, have you ever thought about that. What made you think that. Doesn't that make you feel small.